just short of..
.. cool, a beat down, greatness.. perfect imperfection.
Redefining the masses.
GOAL in life: to have an intense shoe collection equivalent to that of one,
Mrs. Imelda Marcos.
x TRICIA
10 | my theory.
With all the events that happened this past weekend, I’m reminded of how important it is to be surrounded by loved ones. So much has happened that I’m also reminded of how extremely grateful I am for the ones I do have. Thanks.
We all have friends that we go to for different reasons or just wanna be in their presence. I have a theory — Before you close the browser.. Just take a look.
There are 5 friends that everyone has:
1. The “have a good time” buddy:
There’s never an agenda. This is a friend that you go to when you’re just looking for fun. Shit does not need to be talked out.. You’re just looking for a smile. Sad to say that the friendship is a little shallow, but what can you say? They exist.
2. The “small doses” friend:
This is a friend you dig, but can’t handle too much of — A friend that can tend to get annoying. Don’t get me wrong, they’re still a friend. You just wanna be around them every now and then.
3. The “I feel you” friend:
There’s always a shoulder to cry on. They don’t need to ask questions, they just know when something’s up. They know when to talk and when to be someone to lean on. One that is there when you look for comfort.
4. The “whatever” pal:
If they’re there.. they’re there. You could go for months at a time without talking to one another, but once you make contact, it’s like you were never apart. You just pick up where you left off. This is a friend you know you can always talk to no matter what the circumstance.
And then there’s..
5. The “best” friend:
No bullshit. It is what it is. You appreciate the best qualities and flaws in one another — It just adds to the relationship. This is a friend that will always tell you things “straight up” because they’re not afraid of hurting your feelings and you take in all of it because you trust this person entirely. You don’t need to plan anything out. You can have a conversation about nothing for 6 hours and have it make complete sense. This is the person you can go to for anything and nothing without the embarrassment that usually follows. A friend that will always be there for you. bestfriend.. We good.
ps. Hey! I still consider this Tumblr Tuesday because I haven’t slept yet. The Wednesday morning sun isn’t up yet, so we good. ya dig?
